How I Transformed My Hair: 50 Basics That Took Me from Thin to Thick, Thigh-Length Hair

I know firsthand how challenging it can be to grow your hair out, especially when it feels like genetics are working against you. But I’m here to tell you - genetics isn’t everything. With the right routine, the right care, and the right products, you can transform your hair.

I’ve spent years refining my hair care routine, and I’m here to share the 50 basics that helped me grow my hair longer, healthier, and stronger. These aren’t just tips I’ve read about-they’re what I practice every day. And they’ve worked wonders for my clients too.

  1. I always keep my scalp clean. A healthy scalp is the foundation of thick, long hair.
  2. I make sure to keep my hair tangle-free. This reduces loss of healthy strands.
  3. Consistent oiling is a game-changer for me. It heals even the driest scalp.
  4. I use my growth & length retention oil  – it’s my secret to healthy, thick hair.
  5. I dilute my shampoo every time I wash my hair. Never with full strength.
  6. I focus on the scalp and go easy on the lengths, while shampooing.
  7. Shampooing the lengths too often isn’t necessary. I keep it to a minimum.
  8. I oil deeply at least twice a week to keep my scalp and hair nourished.
  9. Social media might tempt you to cut your hair often, but I avoid it.
  10. I never let months go by without trimming though. Split ends will only slow down your growth by splitting even more up and killing length retention.
  11. Micro trims every 1-2 months help thicken up my hemline.
  12. After trimming, I lightly oil my ends to lock in moisture. I love how our formula is light and adds gloss to the ends of my freshly cut hair.
  13. I keep my style classic mostly since I grew till thighs and maintaining the length. Straight cut, neat hair. No layers.
  14. Feathered or layered cuts can make your ends more prone to damage. I avoid them. You can try them if you believe you can care for your ends better.
  15. I never experiment harshly with my hair. I respect its texture. I discourage curly haired clients when they ask me if they can straighten their hair.
  16. I stay away from essential oils that can burn the scalp. No DIY can grow hair overnight. The right herbs & oils can let your achieve the length goals way faster but not overnight. Please know it.
  17. Oils don’t cause dandruff. The right oils heal the scalp and keep length intact.
  18. Pre-pooing is part of my routine. I love leaving the oil on for 1-2 hours, sometimes overnight.
  19. Don’t be afraid to leave oil overnight – it works wonders in softening hair!
  20. I always oil my hair before shampooing. Never shampoo unprotected hair.
  21. After conditioning, I don’t pile my wet hair on top of my scalp.
  22. Conditioner residue, if it touches scalp, can cause dandruff or scalp irritation.
  23. I never wring my hair with a rough towel. I use soft fabric or nothing at all.
  24. I gently finger comb to remove tangles while the conditioner is still in.
  25. I air dry my hair soon after washing it. The hydrogen bonds set in faster that way and helps my hair stay smooth for the rest of the week.
  26. I invest in silk or satin scrunchies and pillowcases to protect my hair.
  27. I clean my pillowcases often. Good for hair, better for skin.
  28. I keep my hair in loose, protective styles or braids.
  29. I limit ponytails because they can weigh my hair down.
  30. My comb is wide-toothed, clean, and hygienic. ALWAYS.
  31. I detangle at least once every day – sometimes twice.
  32. I switch to soft water for washing my hair whenever possible.
  33. If I can’t, I always do the last rinse with 'drinking water.'
  34. I make sure to increase my protein intake and track my hair shedding.
  35. If I notice unusual shedding, I get blood work done first.
  36. Vitamin D3, B12 deficiency, and thyroid imbalances are common culprits.
  37. I supplement only after consulting my doctor. I include fresh food/nutrient resources mostly, and supplement only if unavoidable.
  38. I protect my hair from sunlight. A scarf is always with me when I’m out.
  39. I never sleep with wet hair. It's a NO NO.
  40. I air dry under a fan. I do not use a blow dryer.
  41. The longer my hair grew, the earlier I started washing it. I rarely wash it at night.
  42. Herbs work miracles when used in the right combinations.
  43. If my scalp is dehydrated, I seal it in with 6 drops of oil after washing.
  44. I only tolerate dirty or tangled hair when I’m too sick. It’s not a habit I keep.
  45. My curly-haired clients love using my oil infusion for scrunching out the crunch (SOTC).
  46. If your hair is curly, learn curly hair care basics. Don’t straighten it.
  47. If you’re still set on rebonding your hair, learn proper hair care first.
  48. I capture photographs of my hair every 2-3 months to track my progress.
  49. Sometimes, I use DIY hair masks and my own formulations to deeply hydrate my hair. I always add a few drops of my oil to it to give it an extra slip.
  50. I keep coppery discoloration, split ends and thin strands away by sticking to my oiling routine religiously. If not, I wouldn't have gained the length or volume I have now.

I wrote this to break the myth that GENETICS is the sole factor when it comes to long, lustrous, or dense hair. You can have genetically thin hair (like mine) and still achieve huge volume with the right products and care in just a few months. My custom oil formula has worked wonders for me over the years, and it’s something I truly trust and love. You can read my detailed hair oiling guide here.

I’ll be adding more long hair basics and tips to this page, along with photos of my own progress. Right now, I’m setting up my new office space to serve you better, so my focus is there.

For any queries related to the product or for guidance regarding your hair care routine, feel free to reach out to me at lanceekcv@gmail.com or +919043857295 on WhatsApp.

Thank you for being with me! 😊

Love,
Lance.

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2 years ago
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I can say the quality has been consistent, I used it when Lancy first made it years ago, then recently again I started using it. It has helped growing out my hair as it did before, I use other hair treatments as well, such as herbal henna and natural hair packs along with the oil. I love the oil ever since. My mother is also now permanent consumer. Thank you Lancy, my request would be please pipeline henna powder or other hair treatments. <3 I grew my hair 5 inches in the past 9-10 months which is quite amazing for me.

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2 years ago
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Lancy , you homemade oil is really effective, reduced hair fall, growth is good, even relieve head ache, thank you so much for the oil

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2 years ago
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I'm so grateful to have met you, Lance! I was looking for an oil for my low to medium porosity 2b waves. I needed a readymade formula that could help me solve my hair problems. After having covid in march 2021, i experienced tremendous hairfall. It worsened my scalp itch and dandruff/flaking. My scalp used to be highly irritated. It has become a staple in my routine ever since i came across this product in December 2021. 🔸It's such a gorgeous herbal infusion in a super lightweight coconut oil base. For me, it does everything it claims!!.. I noticed : . Gradual decrease in my scalp irritation/itching/dandruff over a period of 2 months. . Hairfall wasn't scary anymore😂🙈 i could see baby hair!! . My scalp felt soothed! . My length felt soft, hydrated and bouncy. . No scalp massages but so much growth!😳 .I don't get splits too often but with this oil, i could go for so long without a trim... which is amazing for length retention! 😍 If you're looking for something that works, go ahead and make the purchase. (One bottle easily lasts for 4 to 6 months depending upon hair length/ density, etc) , I'd say it's priced perfectly!

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2 years ago
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I was looking for a subtle hair oil for a very long time, since I have curly hair, I usually prefer giving myself a scalp massage and could not find the right hair oil for the same. When I saw so many reviews, I decided to give it a shot. Since I also don't have very thick hair, I tried this and it has only been a month or so, I'm already seeing a HUGE reduction in my hairfall and there is tiny hair growing in the front. I am super happy because this doesn't make my hair/scalp feel greasy and it is so subtle but does the job so so well. I'd definitely recommend you all to try it for yourself to see the difference!

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2 years ago
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One of the best hair oils I’ve used so far. Hair texture changes for good. It also reduces hairfall to some extent. I apply it on daily basis and not just for prepoo. Try it and your hair could never thank you enough.

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I would like to start off by saying lance is a very helpful, sweet, professional, kind hearted person! I been using her oil since 2014 when it was called mabh and it help my hair a lot at the time. My hair was severely damage and her oil made my hair stop falling out and made it thicker and longer, My mom was also using it and she got the same results. Unfortunately the site where we was ordering the oil from discounted it and we couldn’t get our hands on it for a while. I stayed persistent and contact lance and finally got my hands on the oil again, she made it very easy for me to purchase. I’m from the US and she explain to me everything that was going on with the shipping to the US. We came up with a solution she shipped the package with DHL and she kept me updated with everything and gave me my tracking number so I could track it too. My package came fast and safe everything was packed nice and she even wrote a hand written note which was so sweet! So if you live in the US or just international and trying to get your hands on the oil GET IT! Lance made the process very easy and she is somebody you can trust and you will get your oil safely:) Thank you again lance for everything<3

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3 years ago
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I have been using this hair oil since the last 2 years. I have curly hair. Since many years I had been trying to grow the length of my hair. I had tried many hair oils with zero results. But since I have starting using the MAHB hair oil my hair has grown a lot. It has given me amazing results. The smell is amazing and also the hair oil is non sticky. My hair has grown till my lower back. Ms. Lancy is doing a great work. This has become my Holy Grail product. I would rate this product at 10/10.

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